It’s a recurring debate within BDSM and D/s circles: Can someone truly be a good Dominant without ever having submitted? Some people believe a Dominant can only understand submission by experiencing it firsthand. Others argue that’s unnecessary — even counterproductive — for those whose nature and desires don’t lean submissive. So, do Dominants actually benefit…
I once came across a quote that made me laugh, but it stuck with me: “The best sadist is a masochist roleplaying as one.” At first, it just sounded cheeky, but the more I thought about it, the more I realized there’s something true in it. Especially when I reflect on how different sadism and…
Most “new sub” mistakes come from rushing in without clarity: unclear communication, porn-fueled expectations, “no limits,” poor vetting, and assuming there’s only one “right” way to do D/s. Slow down, learn the language, negotiate clearly, vet partners, and decide together how your power exchange actually works—inside and outside the bedroom. We heard versions of the…
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